What Mercy Looks Like

Mathew Schmalz, an Associate Professor of Religion, defines “mercy" as a “love that responds to human need in an unexpected or unmerited way.”*

And as soon as I heard that definition, I asked myself, "what do I need?" As a human, I need the essentials, of course: water, shelter, and food.  But I think that God's mercy reaches beyond what I can even comprehend that I need.  He knew me and you before we even took our first breath.  His mercy extends to places of the unseen that go further and deeper than we realize.  His mercy towards us meets our needs before we know we need them.  That makes me feel seen and safe. 

As we have been recipients of such deep, rich mercies, how are we mirroring the mercy we receive towards the people in our inner circle?  How can we make our people feel seen and safe today, right now?  Is there a need that I can see with my human eyes and respond with the supernatural love that God has poured into my life? It doesn't have to be complicated. But I do believe a little forethought goes a long way.

Do you know that neighbor with 4 kids who always seems to be reversing out the driveway in her minivan with sports equipment and smudged windows?  Mercy might look like a gift card to Starbucks. 

Maybe to that friend from high school who you haven't seen in a long time but heard they received some hard news, sending a card with heartfelt words looks like mercy.

And when we are all out of ideas for the day on to whom and how to show the mercy we have received towards others—maybe that's the perfect time to fall to our knees and give thanks to God for the mercies He makes new every morning.

*Schmalz, Matthew. Mercy Matters: Opening Yourself to the Life-Changing Gift. Huntington, IN, Our Sunday Visitor, 2016.

Lent 2022: God's Pursuit

Editor’s Note: Lent is a season of personal reflection. As Advent provides a time to prepare our hearts and minds to celebrate the birth of our Savior, Lent offers us time to reflect on our sin, and the need for our Savior’s death and resurrection on the cross.

This year, our weekly reflections will focus on the mercy of God. In His goodness, God has displayed mercy towards us from the start. He knew sin would enter the world and created a means to have right-standing with Him. In the coming weeks, it is our hope that we each spend time remembering God’s mercy and His pursuit of us—from our sinfulness and need, to the institution of sacrifices for the Israelites, culminating with the perfect sacrifice of Jesus Christ on the cross. God has been always kind, always just, always loving, always merciful. 

This week, we make a turn from Old Testament to New. We have recognized our sin and need for repentance and mercy through the Old Testament institution of sacrifice— a temporary act that must be oft repeated. Now, as we move into the New Testament, we begin to see God set the stage for the ultimate sacrifice through Jesus Christ, but first, we will spend some time reflecting on God’s heart for us and what great lengths he would go to pursue us.

 “See that you do not despise one of these little ones. For I tell you that their angels in heaven always see the face of my Father in heaven. What do you think? If a man owns a hundred sheep, and one of them wanders away, will he not leave the ninety-nine on the hills and go to look for the one that wandered off? And if he finds it, truly I tell you, he is happier about that one sheep than about the ninety-nine that did not wander off.  In the same way your Father in heaven is not willing that any of these little ones should perish.”

Matthew 18: 10-14

Reflect:

God’s mercy is not passive, waiting for us to come to our senses, working to find him and finally experience his mercy. In his mercy, he relentlessly pursues us, even when we are far from the sheepfold. Matthew 18 seems to be about God’s measuring of greatness and humility and the valuing children.

1. If you are a parent, have you ever had a child wander away from you?  How did it feel to realize the child was missing?  How did it feel to be reunited?
2. Think back, do you ever remember being lost?  Compare the lost feelings with the feelings that raced through your body once you were back in a familiar safe place with safe people. How do those memories bring new understanding to God’s pursuit of us?
3. What feelings might you need to examine if you find yourself feeling like one of the ninety-nine obedient sheep?
4. In prayer to God, name one or two people whom you don’t want to perish. Ask Him to relentlessly pursue them.

In Ezekiel 37, God demonstrates that He is a source of life and hope for people who are exhausted and scattered.

“Say to them, ‘This is what the Sovereign Lord says: I will take the Israelites out of the nations where they have gone. I will gather them from all around and bring them back into their own land. I will make them one nation in the land, on the mountains of Israel. There will be one king over all of them and they will never again be two nations or be divided into two kingdoms. They will no longer defile themselves with their idols and vile images or with any of their offenses, for I will save them from all their sinful backsliding, and I will cleanse them. They will be my people, and I will be their God…I will make a covenant of peace with them; it will be an everlasting covenant. I will establish them and increase their numbers, and I will put my sanctuary among them forever. My dwelling place will be with them; I will be their God, and they will be my people. Then the nations will know that I the Lord make Israel holy, when my sanctuary is among them forever.’”

Ezekiel 37: 21-23, 26-28

Reflect:

1. What meaning does God’s Old Testament pronouncement and fulfilment of unification and salvation for Israel mean to you today in the 21st century in the United States, especially if you are non-Jewish?
2. Just as God has the power to cleanse Israel, God has the power to cleanse each of us. From what “idols” and “vile images or other offenses” do you need to be cleansed?
3. These scriptures highlight God’s pursuit of his chosen people Israel. Given this glimpse of his character, what thoughts do you have about his pursuit of people in other countries and his capacity to bring peace when nations put him in the center of their plans? (John 12:32; Revelation 7: 9-11)

Prayer:

Dear God, as I reflect on your unrelenting pursuit of me and of other humans, made in your image, loved by you from before the beginning of time, I am overcome with gratitude. But I am also humbled.  Sometimes I continue to turn away or ignore you rather than falling into your arms of care.  Teach me more clearly how to get in step with you. Give me a relentless concern for others around me, especially those who may have been forgotten by the world because they are not part of the 99 who are seen and safe. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Additional scriptures: Isaiah 59:16-21 and Jeremiah 31:20, 31-34.

*New International Version of the Bible was used for scriptures in this piece.

Lent 2022: Repentance

Editor’s Note: Lent is a season of personal reflection. As Advent provides a time to prepare our hearts and minds to celebrate the birth of our Savior, Lent offers us time to reflect on our sin, and the need for our Savior’s death and resurrection on the cross.

This year, our weekly reflections will focus on the mercy of God. In His goodness, God has displayed mercy towards us from the start. He knew sin would enter the world and created a means to have right-standing with Him. In the coming weeks, it is our hope that we each spend time remembering God’s mercy and His pursuit of us—from our sinfulness and need, to the institution of sacrifices for the Israelites, culminating with the perfect sacrifice of Jesus Christ on the cross. God has been always kind, always just, always loving, always merciful.

Previously we focused on our sin, which necessitates our need for mercy from God. This week we turn our focus to repentance. Repentance acts as a bridge—after we have recognized our sin, it is important that we turn back to God in repentance to receive the full measure of his mercy.

Proverbs 28:13

Whoever conceals their sins does not prosper,

    but the one who confesses and renounces them finds mercy

Psalm 32:1-5

1 Blessed is the one

    whose transgressions are forgiven,

    whose sins are covered.

2 Blessed is the one

    whose sin the Lord does not count against them

    and in whose spirit is no deceit.

3 When I kept silent,

    my bones wasted away

    through my groaning all day long.

4 For day and night

    your hand was heavy on me;

my strength was sapped

    as in the heat of summer.

5 Then I acknowledged my sin to you

    and did not cover up my iniquity.

I said, “I will confess

    my transgressions to the Lord.”

And you forgave

    the guilt of my sin.

Isaiah 1:16-20

16 Wash and make yourselves clean.

    Take your evil deeds out of my sight;

    stop doing wrong.

17 Learn to do right; seek justice.

    Defend the oppressed.

Take up the cause of the fatherless;

    plead the case of the widow.

18 “Come now, let us settle the matter,”

    says the Lord.

“Though your sins are like scarlet,

    they shall be as white as snow;

though they are red as crimson,

    they shall be like wool.

19 If you are willing and obedient,

    you will eat the good things of the land;

20 but if you resist and rebel,

    you will be devoured by the sword.”

For the mouth of the Lord has spoken.

Psalm 51

1 Have mercy on me, O God,

    according to your unfailing love;

according to your great compassion

    blot out my transgressions.

2 Wash away all my iniquity

    and cleanse me from my sin.

3 For I know my transgressions,

    and my sin is always before me.

4 Against you, you only, have I sinned

    and done what is evil in your sight;

so you are right in your verdict

    and justified when you judge.

5 Surely I was sinful at birth,

    sinful from the time my mother conceived me.

6 Yet you desired faithfulness even in the womb;

    you taught me wisdom in that secret place.

7 Cleanse me with hyssop, and I will be clean;

    wash me, and I will be whiter than snow.

8 Let me hear joy and gladness;

    let the bones you have crushed rejoice.

9 Hide your face from my sins

    and blot out all my iniquity.

10 Create in me a pure heart, O God,

    and renew a steadfast spirit within me.

11 Do not cast me from your presence

    or take your Holy Spirit from me.

12 Restore to me the joy of your salvation

    and grant me a willing spirit, to sustain me.

13 Then I will teach transgressors your ways,

    so that sinners will turn back to you.

14 Deliver me from the guilt of bloodshed, O God,

    you who are God my Savior,

    and my tongue will sing of your righteousness.

15 Open my lips, Lord,

    and my mouth will declare your praise.

16 You do not delight in sacrifice, or I would bring it;

    you do not take pleasure in burnt offerings.

17 My sacrifice, O God, is a broken spirit;

    a broken and contrite heart

    you, God, will not despise.

18 May it please you to prosper Zion,

    to build up the walls of Jerusalem.

19 Then you will delight in the sacrifices of the righteous,

    in burnt offerings offered whole;

    then bulls will be offered on your altar.

Reflect:

1. In these passages, sin refers to rebellion or violations of God's law. What sin currently has a grip on you? Can you acknowledge your sin to the Lord? Can you share your struggle with a trusted friend? Our Lord promises us forgiveness and release from sin’s grip if we will just acknowledge it and turn from it.

2. Have you felt the forgiveness of your Savior? Can you relate to David in Psalms 32 when he talks about the weight he felt from his sin and the contrast of that weight lifted once he repented?

Prayer:

Father, thank you that you are a God of mercy—a God of forgiveness.  Thank you for sending your Son to take on the weight and price of our sin so that we can be forgiven.  Father, you know us intimately and you know our struggles.  Praise the Lord that you call us into your presence, even in the midst of sin and shame.  Father, we ask that you would remind us of our sin; that you would push us to repentance.  Provide a trusted friend, spouse, or pastor that we can confide in.  We know that once sin is exposed it no longer has a hold on us.  It is exposed to the light (Ephesians 5:12-14).  Forgive us Lord for our failures.  Help us to strive toward holiness.  In your name we pray, Amen.

Lent 2022: Mercy

Editor’s Note: Lent is a season of personal reflection. As Advent provides a time to prepare our hearts and minds to celebrate the birth of our Savior, Lent offers us time to reflect on our sin, and the need for our Savior’s death and resurrection on the cross.

This year, our weekly reflections will focus on the mercy of God. In His goodness, God has displayed mercy towards us from the start. He knew sin would enter the world and created a means to have right-standing with Him. In the coming weeks, it is our hope that we each spend time remembering God’s mercy and His pursuit of us—from our sinfulness and need, to the institution of sacrifices for the Israelites, culminating with the perfect sacrifice of Jesus Christ on the cross. God has been always kind, always just, always loving, always merciful. 

Mercy

The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases;
    his mercies never come to an end;
they are new every morning;
    great is your faithfulness.

Lamentations 3:22-23

Reflect: “Mercy” is defined* as “compassion or forgiveness shown toward someone whom it is within one's power to punish or harm.” When we talk about God's mercy, it is easy to focus on the high standards of a holy God that require mercy to be extended, and that is necessary and right, but we cannot neglect to reflect on what we are given instead because of the kindness of God and His love for us. God’s mercy never runs out on us.

How have you seen His steadfast love and mercies renewed each morning for you?

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But when the goodness and loving kindness of God our Savior appeared, he saved us, not because of works done by us in righteousness, but according to his own mercy, by the washing of regeneration and renewal of the Holy Spirit, whom he poured out on us richly through Jesus Christ our Savior, so that being justified by his grace we might become heirs according to the hope of eternal life.

Titus 3:4-7

Reflect: Have you ever tried to save yourself by “works done in righteousness?” When did you come to realize that your salvation comes from God’s mercy? How does that change how you view your sin and your thoughts towards God?  

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But God, being rich in mercy, because of the great love with which he loved us, even when we were dead in our trespasses, made us alive together with Christ—by grace you have been saved—and raised us up with him and seated us with him in the heavenly places in Christ Jesus, so that in the coming ages he might show the immeasurable riches of his grace in kindness toward us in Christ Jesus.

Ephesians 2:4-7

Reflect: Why do you think mercy and love seem to go hand-in-hand in each of these passages? In what ways has God shown His rich mercy—throughout the Bible, history, and your own life? What can you do in response to His rich mercy throughout this Lenten season?

Additional reading: Psalm 51:1

*Definition taken from the Oxford Languages Dictionary on Google.

All verses quoted are from the English Standard Version (ESV) translation of the Bible.